Prioritizing
Not everything in life can be a priority. Many important things will
compete for attention over your lifetime, but there are not enough
hours in anybody's lifetime to give attention to everything that could
potentially be a priority.
Determining your basic priorities is a key exercise in moving toward
more efficient use of your time. Your basic priorities provide a means
for making time choices, helping you decide where it is important to
invest yourself and where you are able to let go
Prioritizing
Setting priorities is a matter of deciding what is very important. In
this case, "important" means significant to you. What activities and
roles give your life meaning? These are the components of your life
where you would like to succeed the most.
Not everything in your life can be a priority. Many important things
will compete for attention over your lifetime, but there are not
enough hours in anybody's lifetime to give attention to everything
that could potentially be a priority. Determining your basic priorities
is a key exercise in moving toward more efficient use of your time.
Your basic priorities provide a means for making time choices,
helping you decide where it is important to invest yourself and where
you are able to let go.
On a daily basis, you also have to learn to set task priorities.
Prioritizing tasks includes two steps:
• Recognizing what needs to be done
• Deciding on the order in which to do the tasks
How do you determine what work needs to be done? For the most
part, it relates back to your basic priorities. To be efficient in your
time use, you have to weed out the work that does not fit with your
basic priorities. Learn to say "no" to jobs that look interesting and
may even provide a secure sense of accomplishment but do not fit
with your basic priorities.
You also have to be able to separate out the tasks that require
busywork that tends to eat away at your time. Many tasks that fill
your day may not really need doing at all or could be done less
frequently. Task prioritizing means working on the most significant
tasks first regardless how tempted you are to less significant tasks out
of the way.
Certain skills help in using time effectively. Most of these skills are
mental. While it is not necessary to develop all of the skills, each
contributes to your ability to direct time usage.
Time sense is the skill of estimating how long a task will take to
accomplish. A good sense of time will help you be more realistic in
planning your activities. It helps prevent the frustration of never
having quite enough time to accomplish tasks.
To increase your time sense, begin by making mental notes of how
long it actually takes to do certain routine tasks like getting ready in
the morning, running a load of laundry or delivering your child across
town to baseball practice.
Goal setting is the skill of deciding where you want to be at the end of
a specific time. Goal setting gives direction to your morning, your day,
your week and your lifetime. The exercise on deciding your lifetime
priorities is a form of goal setting. Learn to write down your goals.
If you are like most people, goals are just wishes until you write them
down. Keep your goals specific, as in "weed the flower beds in front of
the house" rather than "work on the yard." Keep your goals realistic
or you will continually be frustrated by a sense of failure.
Standard shifting is adjusting your standards as circumstances
change. Your standards are what you use to judge whether something
is good enough, clean enough, pretty enough, done well enough.
Perfectionists have very high, rigid standards, and they have trouble
adjusting to the changing demands or circumstances of their life.
Develop the ability to shift standards so you can be satisfied with less
than perfect when your time demands are high, instead of feeling as if
you are somehow falling short.
Time planning is outlining ahead of time the work you need to be
done in a specific period. Sometimes time planning is as simple as
writing out a "To Do" list to ease you mind from holding on to too
much detail.
At particularly stressful times, the "To Do" list may expand to include
a more specific calendar of when tasks will be done. While a detailed
time schedule can be too confining to use all of the time, it is a good
way to take the pressure off at exceptionally demanding times.
Recognizing procrastination is a skill in itself because procrastinators
can do an incredible job of hiding their procrastination from
themselves. Procrastination is needlessly postponing decisions or
actions.
You might disguise the procrastination response with an excuse like
waiting for inspiration, or needing a large block of time to concentrate
with your full attention, or needing more information before tackling
a project.
It takes skill to differentiate between procrastination excuses and
legitimate reasons for delaying a decision or action. Without the
ability to recognize when you are, procrastinating there is little
chance of overcoming this immobilizing habit.
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